Talking of groups that are "kinder and gentler" there is a great group in Huntsville Alabama, The Tennessee Valley association of Folk, Traditional and Old Tyme Musicians (or something like that). Last time I was there a couple of years ago they were meeting once a month on a Sunday at the Horticultural Gardens. As their name suggests they are quite a mixed group ranging ardent traditionalists to country. They are very tolerant of different styles and one could even sneak in a "home brewed" one now and then.

Bert.