Sorry I haven't been able to respond sooner, but as you can imagine, I've been swamped. In addition to my hormonal-basket-case bride to attend to, I've been having the month from Hell at work, requiring 10-12 hours a ady so gruelling that I have to ask someone to bring me breakfast, lunch and sometimes supper from the cafeteria upstairs because I don't have the five minutes it takes to get it myself. When I finally drag myself home, there's the day's housework to do. And I haven't even mentioned what I've gone through emotionally this summer, finally being able to reunite with my kids for the first time in ten years (another long, sad story).

Which explains why I haven't posted much lately.

Anyway, I love you all for your advice, which I will use liberally whenevr possible.