Some people try to hook up with others by bitching about still others. Maybe she likes you.
If she really has issues, she should try to find the right emotional distance, and some satisfaction in the job. I work for people I don't really like, in some ways find them ridiculous, but I respect them in some other ways. Everyone else who worked there when I started is gone, but one, I, the last of the Mohicans. I found the right distance, and it's okay.
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