Thank you Been There Too. I don't think i will ever reach that point as he treats me so very, very well in all other ways without asking anything of me, in any way. There is still much between us and it was so good when we had that, too.

guest, rod, as I said, affairs are no problem but not what i want. Been there, done that, too, it was fun and we were open about it, with pleasure.

harpgirl may have hit on something. i think he may have a slight case of Asperger and i didn't know a sympton of that could be extreme sensitivity to touch. this is something which has become worse over the years when he is undressed. very, very ticklish at the slightest touch.