"Bush must go, Kerry must win. That is the definition of absolutism. "

No it isn't, it is a definition of common sense.

The bottom line is that one of these two will be President. Agree or disagree, they are the "rulers" and if you choose to live in this country, you abide by the rules.   You don't have to agree with them, and you most definitely should work for changing the ones that are wrong. You've chosen what you call a "progressive" or "radical" path, and you are unfortunately have very little company on that path. You are welcome to continue to wander in the wilderness, or you can work for change in the way most of us have chosen. Your call, and I wish you luck with whatever way you choose. It appears you have made up your mind and you won't listen to other points of view. Good luck to you.