Actually, Guest, I'm not forgetting that thin line between well-wishers and weirdos. And the timing of visitors is not, IMO, at all appropriate. I was merely trying to suggest a different reason than your for the presence of some people. I prefer to believe they are there for 'good' reasons rather than to satisfy their own morbid curiosity, which is how I interprete the invasion of media. If I was part of that community, I imagine that I would want everyone, well-meaning or not, to just go away for a while and let me grieve.