There is also the issue of a female's right, in the context of choice and women's lib, t any age she considers herself rady, to engage in sexual activity-- at any age she considers herself ready. This is one reason the "rapist" must be considerably older than the "victim".... because girls get horny too, and one cannot always assume compulsion or pressure from the boy. So it might even be that this young lady has provided your friend a less than completely accurate description of the reasons for her behavior. Do I think this is the case, or that if it is the case, this is a good thing? No! But we don't have all the facts, do we.

~S~