Gargoyle, your compliments addressed to me, I suspect, were meant for Lloyd61. I accept them warmly because i too have done my best to raise a family (three daughters) and the last woman-semester of college is about to be PAID FOR and I can rearrange my priorities to do more for myself. On the musical side, while one of my friends has divided musicians into the "stringers" and the "singers" I find myself not wanting to choose, but more on the side of the singers. I CAN play tunes for 4 hours and have done so, but the more memorable sessions are the ones with good stories told or re-told.