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Black Beauty BS: Soldiers Convicted of Crimes in NI (242* d) RE: BS: Soldiers Convicted of Crimes in NI 17 Dec 06


There are differences of opinion and disagreements, but this has become catty. You all seem to look for signs of any inherent weaknesses. In fact, the way that some members handle responses in the thread is childish.

The most important factor in determining what is best for this country through debate not bitching. If some members think they have learned the art of constructive arguing you are so wrong.

When productive arguments or disagreements degenerate into harmful name-calling and other verbal attacks, relationships among members can suffer serious damage.

Although disagreements pop-up in all subjects on this site, arguing need not grow into a bigger problem. How can you prevent differences of opinion from developing into heated and destructive arguments.

Stick To The Issue At Hand. Don't "dig up skeletons" or recall past events or circumstances. That will only make other members more disagreeable and is likely to lead to scorekeeping.

Member called "Guest" you are the worst.

Love Charlotte


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