On a personal note - 2 yrs ago I returned to the local folk club and was enjoying friends company when a singer started his set by asking if everyone had had a good holiday. An audience member shouted of course we did, nobody died did they. My friends looked at me knowing that my Father died 19th Dec and his funeral had been during the Christmas/New Year interval with me as executor. I still cannot look at this person without thinking what a %$@& he is even though I realise he was ignorant of my case. As I said :- One mans meat ....