i've followed and been on here on and off for 3 years so not that new and 25 years of playing with computers, networks and the such like kinda makes me an old hat at this.

I know what you are saying but in all fairness anyone can pose as someone else and it's really easy for anyone and I mean anyone to come on these forums and just be a nuisance as a GUEST can be anyone.

I have also been in the folk world since year dot and know a large quantity of people on here... I don't piss in pools cos I dont like it, I equally dislike other people pissing in the pool and causing others discomfort.

I get what you are saying but my sister came on yesterday and no-one knew it was her... she told me how she tried to resist shit stirring and when you see what happened you can see how easy it is to upset people.

I never use a pseudo name cos I am happy with who I am and am prepared to apologise... and anyway I like my name :D

I am learning all the time but I also teach...

I care about everyone here and if I ask people to take caution it's because I care... I know you are a nice girl and I want to keep it that way... do you get what I'm trying to say?