Harpgirl, In my humble opinion you and the mudcat gals have the right to have your own night on the town.
It seems to me by the postings that Shambles appears to be a controlling,insecure narrow minded sexist male. I personally would like to hear the women of mudcat, and have them work on their music and get together. And if you exclude me from the room, so be it, its your right.
Being a pretty open minded male who enjoys being around independent females I can personally handle your deviation of the hear me room. Although I do enjoy all of the individuals that are there male and female.
Now I know that some people reading this will be pissed off, but I have my beliefs and am Man enough to handle it. I hope the rest of the male mudcat population can.
Sailor Dan