Thanks for your help Kat, I will try that test.

I generally get on with men at work more than women - probably because I'm not very girly, in the sense that I've got a bloke's sense of humour and I'm into music and books and not much into things like make-up, relationships and shopping - and the type of organisations I work in tend to attract rather mumsy, girly women I suppose. Trouble is if you chat to the blokes more often, people think you're flirting!