LH is right kat, I'm an old guy now, but like yourself, we worked and we depended on family support and saw the kids of an evening. Sadly here in the UK many young women see it as a well paid profession. They top the housing list, generous grants to have it furnished, rent paid for them and a decent weekly cheque. Britain tops the poll in Europe for teen single mums. It's not down to poor sex education, it's down to not having to work for a living. There is a housing estate behind me and it's a prime example. I can't believe the age of some of these young girls with prams. When the weekends come it's like the wild west. Well for them can afford to drink and party. I live on a small pension, at least I raised by family by honest hard work and had kids for all the right reasons.