This is still not sinking in after reading this whole thread. I am so glad to hear others speaking of Sandy . He and Caroline have been so kind to me over the years . We live within 20 miles but both working at surviving in the arts we had little time to see each other over many many years . I have thought of the Paton family every day since the river had its way . I had to play music for a life-long nieghbor who left the world and whos memorial was on the same day as the good-by memorial dinner-dance for Kayolin so missed the gathering .
                Tons of love to Caroline if anyone reads these notes to her . She is very much in my thoughts . Her old friend , Guy