My condolences too Chanteyranger. It's all true what you mentioned earlier. And we should not try to get things right because maybe some of us could die, we should make things right so we can live ! We had some losses in our family too, and I look at my kids, how they deal with it. They seem to accept so easy, no why's. It helps me a lot to also accept the pain. I think you started a good thread here, and hope somebody can find something here that'll help him or her. Also thanks for your thoughts. Yo.