As someone closely associated with several adults who show autistic tendancies but have never been diagnosed, as well as some who have, one thing I CAN say is that they are all different. Some manage to cope well in the outside world, others have to have a lot of help for all of their lives - as do 'normal' people. At least it is now being recognised instead of being swept under the carpet/being sent to the asylum.

One thing that has come out of this thread is the love, care and hope of all those involved. I hope those reading it who didn't know anything about it before now understand a bit better. Rose, you were extremely brave and taught us a lot.

New ideas, medications and treatments are being brought out everyday. You never know - one day they may find the golden apple which REALLY helps everyone with the syndrome. Until then we must manage with what is available.

So let's let this thread go where we started it...

"My wish for 2010 is that people will understand autism is not a disease; people with autism are not looking for a cure but for ACCEPTANCE"