Before anyone asks, I'm also female, play two instruments, sing and write. The band does not revolve around or depend upon Girlchild. I'm just troubled by the fact that feelings ARE going to be hurt, and I'll probably lose two really good friends in the process. Mum and daughter are like family members now. I have pretty much decided that honesty is the best policy.

Average age of our band is 40, but we're diverse in that department, ranging from old farts to those of us still in our prime.

Unfortunately, what began as a joyous happening has turned into a bit of a chore with the "youngster" in tow, and a semi-famous entertainer once told me "If it's not fun, you're doing something wrong." Time to heed his advice.

Once again, thanks for all the feedback, and I'll come back and do a follow-up. (I feel like a talkshow guest here.) Mudcatters are the best!