Of course the trick is to do what you like, but all too often people stay out of the limelight because they are nervous about presenting themselves in public. When other performers sense this they'll mistakenly use all kinds of coercion to bring the genie out of the bottle ... even guilt. Most performers started out being nervous themselves and found that the conquering of their fears opened up a wonderful world of communication to them. They realized that they actually enjoyed playing for others, and it is difficult for these people to believe that everybody doesn't feel that way.
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