Glad you're smiling - it's much better to have these things out in the open, isn't it?

However, I don't know if you will be relieved or disappointed to find that there is no such thing as 'a homosexual life style'.

Some gay people are promiscuous - just like some straight people. Some are monogamous and some, from inclination or lack of opportunity, are celibate - just like heterosexuals. Some dress flamboyantly, some are boring - just like heterosexuals. Some would like to get married, but unlike heterosexuals, in many countries they don't have that option. Just how preventing gay people from marrying is going to discourage promiscuity and lack of responsibility about STDs is something I don't understand - perhaps you can explain, but don't worry - no-one is going to force you to sleep around if you don't want to.