Love your philosophy on worrying. I teach people about 'fret energy'; if you're worrying about something you can't do a damn thing about, you're wasting energy you could be using on something else. So, set aside some time to cry, pity, roll around and pound grass, then get to work. And sometimes the work is sitting and accepting.

Thinking about you and your family, sending prayers and hugs for the hard times, high-fives for the good ones.

Dani

PS: know any good online bananagrams? THAT I could kick your ass at!