Maeve, you pipped me to the post; so good to hear from '9' & agreed, in the thoughts & hearts of many of us.

Janie, like you, I check in most days...like you & Maeve, I am often lost for words but desperate to say something meaningful.

Sandra, wouldn't it be amazing if we could collect all the tears shed & transform them into a balm that would cure all ills, comfort the distressed, ease all pain & suffering. I long to live in such a World.

Yesterday, Ann & I asked our Doctor for a Bereavement Counsellor referral. We've muddled along as best we could, but the enormity of what happened in March last year has finally hit home. We've been kidding ourselves that we were 'ok', clinging desperately to the 'day at a time' mantra. Only time will tell.
                                                With Love,
                                                               Nigel & Ann
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