"Not if you're in a straight, monogamous, loving, traditional family, huh? Why not promote that??..instead of demonizing those who are, and calling them inappropriate names, like 'homophobic'??...

That makes any number of times that you have implied (to say the least) that to advocate fair treatment of people who happen to be homosexual is to denigrate those who are not; now you've pushed it to the point of saying that those who advocate respect for people regardless of their orientation are "demonizing" people in straight monogamous families. The mental leap bridged by your first "..." above is just a bit wider than the breadth of all the rational thought known to mankind,