Bardford,
Incidentally, I'm sorry to hear about your loss. My grandmother died four years ago the day before Christmas, and it's still really hard. I sang "Christmas in the Trenches" for my parents and some friends tonight, and then they requested "Kilkelly, Ireland," and by the time I got to the last verse I was almost bawling. Finished it, but just barely. This can be a tough time of year.
Moll