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Bill D Mudcat - changes in style and profile (361* d) RE: Mudcat - changes in style and profile 29 Jun 14


I know from 40+ years of association with 'folkies' that they have a WIDE range of interests... and often write & sing songs to match. Broadside Ballads were a real way of telling the world about events. At any gathering, it is common to hear as many discussion as songs.

All this is fine... until someone, or several someones... decides to take a combative position on a topic. I see why certain topics can arouse passion, but I never 'quite' understand why anyone thinks that insults & invective will change anyone else's mind. It IS possible to debate facts & analyze reason & logic without yelling... in person, OR IN PRINT!

I have engaged in many, many debates here in 12-14 years, but I don't think I have ever called anyone a nasty name or accused them of being stupid...etc... (I don't debate with anyone I consider to BE stupid- what sense would that make?) I debate & criticize positions, not people, and it makes me sad when others can't disagree without flinging mud.

That said... if I am in an RT gathering and the conversation isn't working, I can just walk away. Here I can just refuse to read...or at least not reply. Sounds simple, hmmm? Not to some, I suppose.

I would not like to see the openness go, and like Steve Gardham, I am willing to navigate my way thru the awkwardness for the gems that have inspired me.

(and... *smile*... Eliza is a breath of fresh air with her commentaries on life...)




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