I was just trying to remember how I met most of the men I currently am friends with. * Two were co-workers, neither is married, both are in their 50s, both are straight * Five were tenants of a building I once managed. I am no longer close with any of them although we still have coffee when we happen to meet and bring each other up to date. Four are married now, I have no idea whether the remaining one is straight * One I met through a woman friend; he is gay * One I met through the gay man. He is also gay * Two are single men, elderly but interesting, that I met where I now live. We play cards together and have long talks. I think they are straight. * Most of the rest of my men friends I met through music. Most of them are married, several are single. Not one is below 40. All of these men are friends, i.e. if I needed help they would help.
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