Gnu, I feel that I know you well enough to go beyond my mere expression of sympathy. Is the other person you speak of your mother? I think she is trying to keep from imposing on you by asking for something specific, while you are trying to get a specific answer from her. The result is that you are driving one another up a wall. I suggest you start by letting her know what you would like to do. (We can assume that you are not going to offer her something she hates) For example: 1. I was thinking of having scallops tonight. Would you like that? 2. I can make hamburgers or macaroni tonight. Which would you like? 3. I'm in the mood for spaghetti tonight. What do you thinK? 4. I need to clear out leftovers. Would you like the scallops or the roast duck Toulouisienne? How does that sound, Gnu?
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