It would appear someone has no clue about what they are talking about. How is something to do with gender a "sexual aberration"? Why would a correspondent talk to a child about their gender and yet it is referred to as "their sexuality".

I quite agree a great deal of abuse does go on around the issue, but acceptance in letting a child decide how they wish to present themselves until they can make a legal consent on their own futures, is not part of it. Forcing children to conform to societal roles is abuse when they feel very different about it. Allowing them freedom to delve is not.

The fact you have taken gender related issues and gone on the usual sexuality witch hunt actually shows much more of your agenda than you seem to be aware of yourself. You are not alone. Thousands like you do the same thing. It is a difficult subject to get your head around when it's not you who is affected. My advice would be is if it does not affect you then don't talk about something you know (seemingly) little about OR learn something more factual on the subject and put your energies into allowing it to sink in. Not everything is a sexual conspiracy and that include gender issues particularly.

When I was little children we were made to conform to stereotypes that now do not hold up in a more educated and freer (for some) world. We now all have more rights, for one thing, to protect from the hate speech and agenda of some in society who would oppress and supress anything they themselves find 'different' or offensive. What is it they fear, I wonder, when it does not affect them?