Steve, I found a friend I hadn't seen for thirty-some years on Facebook. We reconnected, and I've been to visit her. I keep up with what she's doing now via Facebook. She lives a few hundred miles away, except for certain times of the year when she lives a couple thousand miles away. Yes, we could phone and write letters, but Facebook is now, and doesn't require much effort.
I reconnected with my cousin when she found my Facebook info on a Google search.

I'm not going to tolerate name-calling. "He" hasn't posted with a "secret identity" or a "false name". I don't care if you're paranoid, just don't bring that shit in here.