Hi, folks, got another:
It's a fiddle tune, purportedly about the Quaker being off somewhere else, so when the Quaker's wife goes to church (maybe I have it backwards!) she merrily kisses somebody....?
"The Quaker's Wife" in the archives here has a strong resemblance to what I'm looking for, but the chorus substitutes "danced" where I think "kissed" ought to be; also, the story isn't what I was hoping to get.
I bet you guys know something!
Thanks,
Mimsey