Please do not understand me in this. I in no way agree with what has happened. I agree that it is a sad day for the world when a tragedy of this magnitude happens. however i consider it a greater tragedy for the world when the reaction to such a tragedy is such that people raise up in arms against each other and those who were accepting and friendly to all and sundry (as i had found this forum, the most accepting place i have ever seen) into backbiting and smallminded bigots. If we let ourselves turn against one another and cause pain and anguish to even one other person then we are aiding those who seek to distroy us. I for one am saddened gratly by many of the threads and individual comments i have found here and have decided that even having enjoyed and partaken in (if briefly - as a very new mudcatter) several of the discussions - i may not return t6o the mudcaat cafe for a long time. Cxxx