No finer truth than that written than above.
It is Max's Toy. He lets us play with it. He can take it home anytime he wants. If he says the game is "Horse" and we want to play "Real B-Ball" tough!
If you can do better, build a site and see if they come.
For personal reasons he prefers the hit rate high (a mine is bigger than yours mentality of males.)
As his guests he can determine his friends, motives, access, and his choice is his choice is his choice.