Guest 12:08...No, I'm not suggesting 'my' behavior as a 'guide' to anyone. It is simply my approach to posting on this web-site. The question was asked in an open forum and I responded. And yes, it's my feeling that one should be respectful of one's host. As a guest are you afforded the same rights as the residents? I don't think so and nor should you be. The members support and maintain this website and are entitled to a certain amount of deference simply because of that. Others' opinions may differ about this including the members themselves. When questions are posted it would seem there's an objective truth for which any that respond are searching. And who's to say all gatherings have to be happy? "To my way of thinking..." is expressing an opinion based on exclusivity not necessessarily objective processing. Who's to say your way is the right way? Seems a little snobbish, with all respect.