I have at times envied the success of other folks, those who stayed the course and were full time musicians, while I ducked out and went back to teaching school. They had I felt, more time to develop their craft, and experience. I couldn't quit the music, and the frustration was high sometimes. But in the end 'the middle way' where I play the local clubs and occasional festival while I worked a day job wasn't so bad. I wound up with health insurance and retirement and many, many good music friends. So I recommend it to you out there who are struggling. Go back to school, learn a trade, save your money, and sing part time. I've sung for a few thousand people and I've sung for two. Small audiences are audiences still, and the artistic transaction is the same (IMHOP).

All this to say work where you must, sing what you love and play where you can, and be happy you have the privilege.