Cara what was your original question?, brb, gotta read the other threads. ok good points here folks, I think. I have found it so easy to be super sweet on here and by the same token to go postal. Please don't go either route. Go out to your gardens, take a walk, sing a song to your child/grandchild/pet/ creek. just do something human. Kiss someone, call mom/dad. The net is wonderful, but we are like road rage here. I never believed cyber sex was possible until I interviewed a lot of people, Oh it is, just be careful and be nice.