I came once to this forum to ask for a little help on finding lyrics and music sheets, and get caught. Not only I received immediate attention, but also got nice response to my comments. The secret seems to be similar to that which works in any social group with doors open: 1) Look how people looks and talks to each other before you get in ; 2) When you jump into, say "please", say "may I", say "if I'm allowed to" ; 3) if you have nothing to say, keep reading and enjoy the other's conversation, be patient to find your turn ; 4) offer any contribution you are able to ; 5) keep in mind that doors are open to enter and to leave. For old participants, I suggest that a "welcome thread" should be maintained always on top of the list, for easy reading to newcomers. (For example, a message like "Who you are?" - "Who sent ya?" - The Gorilla at the Door) :)) And please, tell us who are new, what is the meaning of "Mudcat" Thank you all - Best regards - escamillo@ciudad.com.ar
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