I really appreciate the input, and I concur that the brain health and not the money is the real concern, and it will be the sole focus as soon as we make sure the finances are secured--I didn't mention it, but she also handles money and health care for my dad, who has some serious chronic problems, and had needed looking after for quite a while--

For some reason, Rapaire, I didn't think to check the Mayo site,and it is quite helpful--Stroke and diabetes are both factors, and she is taking many(perhaps too many) meds--