Putting my (unwanted) 00.02p worth in. I think that the drugs, (and drink) problem stems in part from the relaxed attitudes to general discipline in the home, if parents can't be bothered to teach their kids the rights and wrongs of life, and a great many of them don't, then how are they to know when they come up against things like these. I see a lot of children, both outside my own home, and at my place of work. Near my home, the kids come home from school and go straight back out on the street to play, back in to eat, and back out again until darkness falls. Do these parents know they've got kids? At my place of work, you can tell the undisciplined ones a mile off, they are the ones who never shut up, always shouting, running about aimlessly, just being a general nuisance. Yes, I guess it IS our fault, we fail them through lack of attention and the discipline which has been taken from us by (dare I say it) "do gooders", we don't want to beat or chastise children without cause, but a good slap on the legs, in the right place, never did any child any harm. In my own childhood I got a good few slaps for being naughty, that was for the general run of the mill things, BUT there was always a strap hanging in the pantry that you KNEW you would get if you were really BBAAADD. (Yes I got it once or twice, mainly for accidentally breaking windows with footballs). But I had good parents, and a good childhood, we knew right from wrong and it stayed with us, these things don't seem to apply today mores the pity. Sorry for the ramblings. cheers Cattail 0~
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