Kelly, if you were a man, chances are it would strike you for the 1000th time how lucky women are to be allowed to to express emotion and feelings for friends and family, how lucky women are that flirting is considered acceptable for a woman, how lucky women are that they look better dancing than men, etc, etc...

Or you could just say screw it and get on with enjoying yourself, whatever you fancy doing. :-) The only rule holding you back is one you've made for yourself.

Graham.