I guess it all depends on how good a parent your Mother or Father was/is. In some cases, a lousy parent can be a good influence just because you see how destructive their way of life is and are determined not to repeat their mistakes. But, even the seemingly worthless parents aren't without some redeeming features. And the best of parents can get on your nerves. I think the best way to understand your parents is to become one (and then pray that your kids will forgive you for all the ways you've messed up.)

Jerry