Ello tuggy mac. Don't worry, you started (or re-started)a good debate and dispite the odd nastiness and 'catty' remarks that creep in, its better to 'air' these things, get it out in the open (if you pardon the expression) and 'argue the fat' rather than bottle it all up and cause grief and 'umbridge'at the music meets!

As the saying goes...'if you've owt to say then spit it out'