I have been reading with great interest, all you have said and all others have written. I think that Joybell has pretty much hit the nail on the head. Doctors are human and do make mistakes, most end up being costly for somebody and I don't mean in a monetary aspect. All one can do is find a doctor whom you trust and pray you did not make a mistake. I have been operated on three times for cancer and have been very fortunate to have outstanding medical help.
You also have my vote for Queen, you'd be a great catch.