Raedwulf - Like Jeanie the only time I lied about my age was when I was fourteen and trying to get into an X-rated movie. I agree - honesty has to be paramount - otherwise there's a lot of difficult explaining to do. If I'm not wanted for what I am then I'm probably best off staying on my own. Unfortunately too many people, male and female, don't seem to have reached that conclusion, as a friend of mine who was on a dating site found out. She met some real horrors.

But the age thing does tend to be a male thing - so many of the dating sites and lonely hearts ads confirm it -check them out.