And, don't forget that it is okay to have a smile about something, even if it's just a flower which pops up in your path or some other little thing. Though grieving is so important, I think we have to allow some leavening by being open to small giggles/smiles once in awhile...without guilt. If you can allow a smile to come through it will remind your heart of the better times and help you turn towards morning as the song says.:-)