Yes, right on Cluin... I've had some bad experiences lately with 'fellow band members' who are extremely proficient at undercutting confidence if you go any direction but theirs... I'd say it's best to leave these folks to their oun kind...

But I'm bringing this up as a general thing too... Open Mics, Sessions, and Song Circles all seem to validate this behavior, and yet, it is just tragic that people do it... ttr