yes, Susan..*smile*, I know...and if 'blessings' can be translated to good wishes and happiness, then I'll take all I can get!

Nicole...
"...a ready-built CD/Song database program out there that is folk friendly "

this one will read the MP3 tag, if there is one, for the type of music...or allow you to edit the tag to put it in any category you wish. I hope that is what you mean, Nicole...
http://www.dbpoweramp.com/dbpoweramp.htm

    * Crossfader - fades old tracks out whilst fading in new, just like having a DJ. Gapless playback, remove silence between audio tracks.
    * Visualizations (Spectrum analyzer, oscilloscope), advanced and varied Skins,
    * On Screen Mini Controls - take control of dAP, anytime anywhere,
    * Built-in Music Collection database, Track Preference Playback - your favorite tracks are played the most!
    * Small and fast - modularized: only components use are loaded,
    * Selective Playback - listen to the tracks you want to hear.
    * ID Tag editor - edit Artist, Track information,
    * Auto Volume Normalization - no more fiddling with the volume knob, all your tracks will be the same volume,
    * Playlist Editor, most played, newest and previously played,
    * Quality Graphic Equalizer (16384 order filter) - digitally enhance your music,
    * Widest codecs available, plays practically every audio type (by default dAP plays Wave, Audio CDs, Mp3, Ogg & Midi).
    * 100% Free no nags, pop-ups, hidden spy or bundle-ware.