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Two Bears, one reads into the remarks a level of correction on your part that seems inappropriate. Pardon me, but the term "levels of grief" is so very clinical, and not really how it feels when you lose a loved one.
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Aloha nui loa Stilly.

Well excuse me; but there are different levels of grief.

First there is numbness (the stage David in in now)
Then there is anger or rage (in some people)
Then there is grief
then there is acceptance, and the ability to move on with their life.

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I ask you to give his Mudcat commmunity the opportunity to express their sorrow and to ask him for his stories about his wife without your approval. It's not required.
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It is perfectly appropriate for David to tell some of his stories with Heidi; but now is not the time. In another week or two would be perfectly fine; but right now give him some time and space to deal with his emotions.

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It has been my experience that stories are what we are all made of, and stories are how we teach and share. And when Raptor is ready, I would like to hear his stories about his wife. The laughter of love
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I agree; but David should share when HE is ready. David is not on your my, or anyone else at mudcat schedules.

Please be patient amd allow David to do the inner work on himself and deal with the emotions.

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Funny, I would have sworn there were no bears in Hawaii.
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That is fair.

The Bear is my totem animal (spirit helper). I have been two completely different people in my life so the name Two Bears is appropriate.

I use Aloha nui loa in my greetings because I have done an intensive study into Hawai'ian mysticism, and I love what aloha nui loa means (I love you very much)

I live in Tennessee East of Nashville in an apartment. I can not build an inipi lodge, or a yuwipi lodge on the apartment complex gwounds for healing ceremonies; so Hawai'ian mysticism (some people call it Huna) allows me to do healings most effectively.

Also I have received the title "master" eight times.

Karuna Reiki (master/teacher
Magnussa Phoenix Reiki (grandmaster)
Seichim (master)
Seventh Facet Seichim (master)
Tibetan Reiki (master/teacher)
Usui Shiki Reiki (master/teacher)
Usui Shiki Ryoho Reiki (master/teacher)
Zhan Zhuang Qigong (master)

I also studied Actualism, Crystal healing, Kiatsu, MAP, HUNA and others.

Any more questions Stilly?

Two Bears