Yorkshire Yankee, thanks for posting all that helpful info and those links too. I'm sure many people will find help and comfort in what you've offered here.

Two Bears, you're absolutely right about " Never say never because life has a way of making one eat their words. For this reason, I refrain from saying things like "Me hug an Octopus? NEVER!!!"   ;-)

Allison, how are you doing? Just checkin in ...

Love and blessings,

daylia