Might seem odd, but I consider carping about the commercialism of Christmas as being part of the problem. To me, the celebration is personal and lived within me. To be sure I give presents at this time, and I sing carols, and I teach my children and grandchildren the lessons of the season. Not just those of my own Christian faith, but those of my pagan forbearers, and other traditions as well. They all center around the same theme.

John, I know that you ponder this stuff and I am pleased that Mudcat is an outlet for you to discuss them. I hope that you will think on making Christmas in your heart. Don't ponder others actions so much as your own. Want Christmas to be special? Make it so, and evaluate your actions based on your values. Happy Christmas, John. May the love that resides within you warm you and those around you.

All the best,

Mick