Why is it I can detatch and accept people for what they are when I'm doin' musical things, but I cannot do that at all with my father-in-law! At a big family gathering, when he used the N-word AGAIN I just plain lost it and screamed, "THAT WAS THE STUPIDEST F****** THING I EVER HEARD!" I've been pretty much a non-person ever since. (As Utah once said, "It's good though!"---lots less stupid small talk.)

If my father-in-law was Roscoe Holcomb, I'd give him the slack probably.

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